I am a coach passionate about holding space for people to take greater responsibility for the lives they are creating. I love witnessing the moment when someone’s eyes light up as they feel the energy that comes from realising the power of choice they hold.

My work invites clients out of passivity and into conscious creation, where agency, possibility, healing, and transformation become lived experiences rather than concepts. My approach, learning and research are fluid and evolving, reflecting my commitment to growth as a path rather than a final destination.

I work intuitively and experientially, drawing from different modalities to meet each person where they are. Rather than offering fixed formulas, I support real, embodied, lasting change.

From a very young age, I sensed that there had to be another way of living than the one I was witnessing around me.
I wasn’t interested in surviving life; I wanted to live it, to experience life as a gift worth exploring, slowly tasting its many fragrances. A gift to be lived, shared, and honoured.

Trying to fight it or rebel against it felt like pushing a massive boulder that stood in the way. It required enormous effort, and yet the boulder never moved. Eventually, I realised that resistance was not the path forward and I chose to explore new ways instead.

For many years, this longing took me across countries and cultures. Travel shaped me, stretched me, and revealed how many ways there are to be human. Eventually, that journey brought me to Aotearoa New Zealand, where I now live with my family.

Today, my travelling looks different.
I no longer travel countries; I travel people’s inner worlds.

I am deeply interested in what shapes us from the inside: the stories we tell ourselves, the possibilities we allow or deny, and the subtle moments where choice becomes available again. I am drawn to holding spaces where people stop outsourcing their lives and begin to consciously create them.

Together with a group of friends, I am co-creating Ontree, a cultural invention centre dedicated to experimenting with and reinventing culture across all aspects of life. It may look crazy from the outside, yet it is precisely these “crazy” experiments that fuel me. Daring to try, refusing to settle for what is offered, and choosing to create the culture I want to live in.

Along this path, I have met friends and colleagues with whom I face challenges, grow and create.

Relationshift is one of those creations.
It is an invitation into radical responsibility, and a doorway into a life worth living.

I appreciate Jacopo's ability to make visible and tangible the magic that is possible when I take responsibility, when I start to make change where I want to see change in my life. In my sessions with him, I can feel his care and love and his strong commitment to evolution.

Lukas L

After the introductory session, I was immediately put at ease. Jacopo is a highly empathetic coach who really listens. Jacopo helped me to see past hurts and current behaviours that were holding me back.

Suze M

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